Life:It does not matter what you do...It matters how you do it...

Hi all, I often need some motivation, inspiration and touching stories, which might not be too long but the truth and knowledge behind is very deep as like Pacific Ocean...to keep me go in my life...
Here comes a short story about U.S First man which is of that sort as mentioned....

Reasons to Respect A Women...

Always i respect women...they are in various forms of life...you can see women as everything in your life, that any other human can't be...always i have a women in my life in my to share my happiness and encourage me in my hardships...I love them a lot, More than,I respect a true women...

Beautiful Lies of A Mother....

This story begins when I was a child:
I was born poor. Often we hadn't enough to eat. Whenever we had some food, Mother often gave me her portion of rice. While she was transferring her rice into my bowl, she would say "Eat this rice, son! I'm not hungry."

This was Mother's First Lie.

As I grew, Mother gave up her spare time to fish in a river near our house; she hoped that from the fish she caught, she could give me a little bit more nutritious food for my growth. Once she had caught just two fish, she would make fish soup. While I was eating the soup, mother would sit beside me and eat the what was still left on the bone of the fish I had eaten, My heart was touched when I saw it. Once I gave the other fish to her on my chopstick but she immediately refused it and said, "Eat this fish, son! I don't really like fish."
This was Mother's Second Lie.

Then, in order to fund my education, Mother went to a Match Factory to bring home some used matchboxes, which she filled with fresh matchsticks. This helped her get some money to cover our needs. One wintry night I awoke to find Mother filling the matchboxes by candlelight. So I said, "Mother, go to sleep; it's late: you can continue working tomorrow morning." Mother smiled and said "Go to sleep, son! I'm not tired."
This was Mother's Third Lie.

When I had to sit my Final Examination, Mother accompanied me. After dawn, Mother waited for me for hours in the heat of the sun. When the bell rang, I ran to meet her.. Mother embraced me and poured me a glass of tea that she had prepared in a thermos. The tea was not as strong as my Mother's love, Seeing Mother covered with perspiration, I at once gave her my glass and asked her to drink too. Mother said "Drink, son! I'm not thirsty!".
This was Mother's Fourth Lie.

After Father's death, Mother had to play the role of a single parent. She held on to her former job; she had to fund our needs alone. Our family's life was more complicated. We suffered from starvation. Seeing our family's condition worsening, my kind Uncle who lived near my house came to help us solve our problems big and small. Our other neighbors saw that we were poverty stricken so they often advised my mother to marry again. But Mother refused to remarry saying "I don't need love."
This was Mother's Fifth Lie.

After I had finished my studies and gotten a job, it was time for my old Mother to retire but she carried on going to the market every morning just to sell a few vegetables. I kept sending her money but she was steadfast and even sent the money back to me. She said, "I have enough money."
That was Mother's Sixth Lie.

I continued my part-time studies for my Master's Degree. Funded by the American Corporation for which I worked, I succeeded in my studies. With a big jump in my salary, I decided to bring Mother to enjoy life in America but Mother didn't want to bother her son; she said to me "I'm not used to high living."
That was Mother's Seventh Lie.

In her dotage, Mother was attacked by cancer and had to be hospitalized. Now living far across the ocean, I went home to visit Mother who was bedridden after an operation. Mother tried to smile but I was heartbroken because she was so thin and feeble but Mother said, "Don't cry, son! I'm not in pain."
That was Mother's Eighth Lie.

Telling me this, her eighth lie, she died. YES, MOTHER WAS AN ANGEL!
M - O - T - H - E - R

"M" is for the Million things she gave me,
"O" means Only that she's growing old,
"T" is for the Tears she shed to save me,
"H" is for her Heart of gold,
"E" is for her Eyes with love-light shining in them,
"R" means Right, and right she'll always be,

Put them all together, they spell "MOTHER" a word that means the world to me.

For those of you who are lucky to be still blessed with your Mom's presence on Earth, this story is beautiful. For those who aren't so blessed, this is even more beautiful.

Godliness Personified....Inspiration...

"I always knew I was going to be rich. I don't think I ever doubted it for a minute" - Warren Buffett













He is just one of the icon whom the world knows to take as inspiration. But there are lot of them in each and every corner of the universe...not even a human, an ant, which works all day to live..bees...the examples extends like a novel...thanks to my friend for being my inspiration...and posted a blog for me...!!!

Colors Symbolize...A Lot...

Colors on ROSE

I have read this somewhere and noted it for future use.
Black Roses signify Death...
Coral Rose conveys desire...
Lavender Roses symbolize love at first sight and enhancement...
Orange Roses indicate enthusiasm, desire and fascination...
Pink (Deep) says Thank You...
Pink (Light) Rose conveys admiration, gentleness, grace, gladness, joy and sweetness...
Pink Rose carry the message of happiness, gracefulness and gentleness...
Red Roses symbolize sincere Love, Respect, Courage & Passion...
Red (Dark) Rose reveals unconscious beauty...
Red (Single) means "I Love You"...
Red & White Roses together signify unity...
Single Rose in any color expresses simplicity and gratitude...
White Roses express Purity/heavenly, secrecy, silence, innocence and charm...
White (Bridal) Rose symbolizes a happy love...
Yellow Roses indicate joy, gladness, friendship and "I Care"...
Yellow Rose with Red Tip indicates friendship falling in Love...

My First Title...My life....

Hi all...I am Dinesh Asokan...I like calling me Dinse...Its (Di-N-shh)...not (Din-see)....I would like to keep all my sweet memories in my life in all formats...may be some as gifts...lots as pictures...some times some only in my and others heart...some personals in life not revealed to anyone...

I am the only child for my parents...so lot of love, care and affection. So till end of my life, i will return my love care and affection to them in any form...that could make them happy..i thought of writing all these in a dairy..but it will mostly become single read or sometime unnoticed to all of my frnds...

I am in social networks, such as facebook and orkut, In this modern life...that too for those who are miles away from hometown its a microseconds bridge to connect to all our family and frnds...
You can catch me on the following links below...

http://www.orkut.com/Main#Profile?rl=mp&uid=11694500303472712218

http://www.facebook.com/asokandinesh

you can find a lot abt me...in various categories like social, professional and personal...i have read in one of my frnds orkut status, under personal column..

"Learn some Decency Please..Itz Ma Personal.."

It was nice...but i am to some extend a open book..so you can know abt me...
Tht friend too blogs...after seeing their blog i had a feeling to start a blog of my own...i messaged and i got a reply...

"wow :) im happy to know that I ve inspired U :) have a good start :) Happy blogging :) do post me ur URL :) "

So thats how i started blogging...

Thanx to that frnd of mine...hope all my family and frnds enjoys it... If anyone have any objections or praisals towards my blogs...welcome anytime to have a comment on it..



With love and care,

Dinse.